Recently I had the pleasure of getting beat up by five Vietnamese thugs hired by a foreign jealous boyfriend. They just came out of nowhere and jumped me as I was drinking with buddies at a popular Saigon bar. I couldn’t do a thing. Security took a long minute to intervene …
Author: B.s. Love
→B.s. Love is a Western man who met too many Vietnamese ladies. The "B.s" is for "Bác sĩ" of course ;)
Although sex trade never rests in Saigon, Sunday and Monday nights are slow to say the least from a hooker’s perspective. The ratios are through the roof with many sexy ladies for very few prospects. At a bar like Apocalypse Now for instance, their odds of scoring a Western 2-million …
One of the biggest hoaxes perpetrated on Western men in Vietnam is the idea that we are better lovers and boyfriend material when compared to local men. While it is true that Western men get a sizable boost on their perceived looks, status and wealth when coming to Vietnam, it’s …
My first time at a Saigon hostess bar made me very uneasy. It was about five years ago. I just came in from Thailand where the lady business is much simpler (albeit uglier). Now I was in the land of fluidity where few things are what they seem. My Vietnamese-American …
Life was great for men back when landlines were the only means of immediate, distant communication. Your girlfriend called and you didn’t pick up the phone? You were away somewhere, no big deal. Back then you could take a whole day to return a call and she wouldn’t even think …
Telling pros from non-pros is the hardest thing when you first venture into the Saigon nightlife. It’s hard even for a seasoned Western whoremonger used to the more “transparent” trade practices of Thailand, Cambodia or the Philippines. A Bangkok threesome-themed brothel owner once told me he didn’t like Saigon because …
Nowhere have I ever met so many jealous guys as in Saigon’s expat community. Not all, but a good number of Western men tend to exhibit that deplorable trait after settling down with a Vietnamese girlfriend. As far as the ladies are concerned, it’s actually a good thing. Many times …
After a while living in Saigon you start to wonder, why do so many cute chicks have the most boring, nerdy kind of Westerner as a boyfriend? You know which guys I’m referring to. The kind with an awkward vibe that screams “I can’t get Western pussy!” and probably didn’t …
This post is about a Vietnamese woman’s true love for her Đại Gia. Đại Gia is Vietnamese for “rich man” and by extension “rich boyfriend who takes care of me”. It is not a derogative term – Đại Gia is actually an accepted fact of life in Vietnam and a …
Welcome to my blog where I attempt to describe the dynamics at work between Western men and Vietnamese women. My thoughts are mostly inspired by events I experienced or witnessed in and around the Saigon nightlife, however you may find some universal quality to them as they are written from …